| Please choose top ten Must Haves |
* I must have someone who cares about how they look and dresses up from time to time, * I must be with someone who likes and is comfortable giving affection to me, * I must have a partner who is social and likes to talk to others, * I must have a partner who enjoys my company but also can spend time alone by themselves, * I must have someone who can share their deep thoughts and secrets with me, * I must have someone who shows me physically that they love me, * I must have someone that shows me through gifts that they love me, * I must have someone that shows me through acts of kindness that they really do love me, * I must have someone who makes me laugh and looks on the bright side of life, * I must have someone who loves to learn, * I must be with someone who has similar educational achievements to my own, * I must have someone who likes taking risks and is adventurous, * I must be with someone who is willing to ask for help and receive it when they need assistance, * I must have someone who is able to handle criticism and does so maturely and is willing to admit they might be wrong in some situations, * I must be with someone who is committed and wants to have a family |
| Please choose top ten I can't stands |
* I can't stand someone who uses illegal recreational drugs, * I can’t stand someone who is a cheater, * I can’t someone who is belittling, impatient or hateful to people in any situation, * I can't stand someone whose main topic of conversation is himself/herself, * I can't stand someone who currently suffers from addictions, * I can't stand someone who fails to come through and is unreliable, * I can't stand someone who engages in sex outside a committed relationship, * I can’t stand someone who is not accountable, loyal, and teachable, * I can’t stand someone who is not committed to their beliefs and their spirituality, * I can’t stand someone who drinks and smokes, * I can’t stand someone who will not take my kids as his or hers and vise versa, * I can’t have someone who is not willing to listen to other points of view from those around them, * I can’t stand someone who is not ready to settle down for a relationship, * I can’t have someone with dissimilar core values, * I can’t have someone who is not willing to put in the effort and work hard at their goals and their tasks, * I can’t stand someone who does not share my interests and passions, * I can’t stand someone who procrastinates |
